“There’s something wrong with the way I grew up.”  This admission occurs in the office of a Life coach and Biblical counselor now and again.  My standard response, or something near it:  Yes, I’m sure there is, as sin is a reality that affects the entirety of creation- welcome to the only club that involves everyone.  In fact, each human being is granted lifetime membership upon conception.  The important factor is what you will do to make your adult life one of positive contribution in spite of the lack of the perfect childhood, leaving the world somewhat better off than you found it.

Some childhood histories include genuine trauma, adult trauma is certainly a reality; and traumatic experience has the potential to ruin all good things.  Still, in the face of this physical, emotional, and spiritual monster- the ultimate question is:  Are you going to allow it to destroy you and possibly the ones you love, as well as your potential to improve society for yourself and for the next generation?

Instead, will you seek assistance through your local church, a Christian counselor, coach, or psychologist? Will you admit your troubles to a neighbor, friend, or family member and ask for help in the journey? Will you become vulnerable once again to your fallen human companions, renewing your trust in a select few? Will you continue to hope in our shared potential as we surrender to Our God who in His time is making all things new?

I am hoping.  I am believing in Our God and am considering in Faith His greatness and power, knowing that by Him and through His Word, His Son, Jesus Christ, and in His Holy Spirit, we can be changed, and that the dead shall be raised incorruptible. Will you join me in this authentic available hope?

Copyright 2018. L.L. Shelton.