All posts by L.L. Shelton

About L.L. Shelton

Bonnie is a Jesus Lover, and in light of the fact, loves His wonderful church. She is interested in many things and enjoys sharing her view of some of them on this blog. She is a poet and a singer of songs. She resides in Memphis, Tennessee, where she is a dedicated wife and the mother of seven children- five of whom she educates at home, as the eldest two have graduated homeschool and are pursuing their own interests. In her spare moments she may be found in her home office with a client, as she is a practicing Biblical Counselor and a Life Coach. She welcomes you to print and share her articles and poetry, and to quote freely from them with the understanding that she is to be acknowledged as the author. Mrs. Shelton does NOT OWN the copyright to the majority of the photos and other types of illustration used on this site!

Music of The Master

Close your mouth
You awful bear!
Shut your jaws
You roaring lion!
Set your teeth together
You creatures of the earth,
While I sing of my master.

Listen while I tell of He
Who set the stars ablaze!
Hear me while I spin for thee!
Tales of His magic do amaze!

Lower your defenses.
Lie still among the grasses.
Hear me as suspense is
Building in the masses…

Soon He’ll come,
Will welcome home
Those gathered,
Do believe Him!
Your teeth will set together
You creatures of the earth,
And all sing of The Master.

Copyright 2017. L.L. Shelton.

Buried Treasure

Was King David of Israel mentally ill or gifted? How about Solomon- David’s son? Was Howard Hughes mentally ill, or gifted? Sir Arthur Conan Doyle? Thomas Edison? The Apostle Paul? Van Gogh? William Cowper? Virginia Wolf? Lord Byron? Ernest Hemingway? Albert Einstein? Sylvia Plath? How about the Jewish prophet Elijah? I submit that (by today’s standards) each of these states was present at various intervals throughout each person’s lifetime; and that in such case, the mentally affected person must be loved and assisted in myriad exceptional ways- none of which would conceal, dilute, or otherwise obstruct the person’s extraordinary abilities.

In our society to be mentally handicapped is not understood to be mentally ill, however mental illness is most certainly understood to be a handicap. Traditionally, we have accepted mental handicapping to be something apart from mental illness and limited to the realm of retardation and the many learning disabilities. For the purposes of this article, I ask you to apply any and all conditions bringing about mental challenges outside what is considered to be the normal range of human experience.

I desire that it be remembered that the handicapped state or illness of the gifted human being is part and parcel with the whole, and to inspire the notion that we must seek to aid in the integration of the whole rather than to destroy a part or parts.

A human being is, in himself or herself, a system. He is a system apart from other systems and yet within and affected by and affecting numerous larger systems. Within and outside the self are various smaller systems functioning in that same manner. Fragmentation of systems should be in all cases analyzed with extreme care and precision, and engaged in as a final option.

Our present food industry has become a conspicuous example of the resulting chaos that ensues from a reckless abandonment of our comprehension and prudent application of systems dynamics.  For example, in our haste to effectively produce more food at less cost, we have turned to pesticides that are heavily contributing to the destruction of our bee population. As bees are among our planet’s most vigorous pollinators of the vegetation we depend upon to survive, this is categorically unwise.

An excellent surgeon will only consider the excise of a part of the physical body as a last resort, so we as spiritual coaches and mental health professionals must be at least as hesitant as a good surgeon to separate intangible part from whole. In our great desire to help and to heal the mind, we must not necessarily decide that the loss of some part or parts of a person’s mental state is the best solution.

I believe it is best in most cases to assist our clients in developing insight and in learning to recognize, name, and manage the various aspects of who they are, that they may be able to properly integrate all into a smoothly operating, cooperative whole. (Of course, in the rare and extreme case of obvious harm to a client or to someone else as a result of the client’s behavior- all manner of assistance must be considered.)

As a result of the human genome project, there is a battle being waged against mental illness and handicap at the genetic level. Meaning, eventually we expect to be able to alter a person’s deoxyribonucleic acid- a person’s DNA- to remove the genetic opportunity for mental illness or handicapping to occur.

At this juncture, I encourage our remembrance that nature or experience is bound to remain a significant fraction of every human being’s individual formation, in other words one’s genetic predisposition to a thing does not presuppose that one will develop it. Any solid mathematician will tell you that the variables in such a problem are infinite. We are finite. According to all known evidence, it is apparent that some things will remain out of our control.

Therefore, knowing treasure is not always obvious and often comes by perilous journey, coupled with an awareness of the extraordinary mental terrains of the highly gifted mentioned here, among many others not noted or waiting to be discovered and explored, is reason enough in my mind to discourage completely an all or nothing proposition regarding the issue of absolutely eliminating mental affections-part or parts of the self- as well as to encourage a cautious holistic approach to the healing of the self.

For further reading on this subject:
Touched With Fire by Kay Redfield Jamison, Phd, MD
An Unquiet Mind by Kay Redfield Jamison, Phd, MD
In Search of The Double Helix, by James Watson, Phd
The Science of Evil, by Simon Baron-Cohen, Phd
Chaos, by James Gleick

Copyright 2017. L.L.Shelton.

There’s The Rub

Though each is duty bound his
Struggle to subdue
His lesser self,
Base nature to undo
Set forth a better man
One bound to Truth,

Though honor may become him
Noble character be gained
Able to love,
Perfection will remain
Until that coming day
Beyond his grasp.

Copyright 2017. L.L. Shelton.

Freedom’s Trail

From Speedwell to Fat man and Little Boy
From islands to Home of The Free
From settlement to colony to nation
From Southampton to busy D.C.
From zeal to confess to zeal to progress
All things do seem to suggest
All spawned by similar interest.

Copyright 2011. L.L. Shelton.


Reconciliation By Way Of Preposition

There is a community
As yet remains unseen.
It flows through every particle,
Each quark and every string,
Exists as well in every cell
Of every living thing.

When once it is identified
I imagine all will sing,
By the presence of His Holiness,
His universes Most High King,
Alpha, Omega, God of all,
Eternal praise we bring!

Copyright 2011. L.L. Shelton.

Further Reflections On Charlottesville

Due to the outcome of our Civil War, the preservation of our nation, we are each subject to a greater society- that of The United States of America, and the government of such has grown to include ideological territory far beyond the original intent of “protection and defense against all enemies foreign and domestic.”

We are each subject to a larger community of feeling, thought, and behavior- in short, subject to one another, and therefore affected by one another, and feeling some degree of ownership of one another’s corporate possessions and territories. We can not flee the inconveniences of the union and yet embrace its benefits. The advantages and disadvantages of the union are part and parcel.

The statue belongs first to Charlottesville and then to Albemarie county (where sits the University of Virginia, the campus having been designed by likely the states most famous resident, multi-slave owner, Thomas Jefferson), next it belongs to Virginia, and then to the United States of America; and the ripple effect of decisions concerning said statue will be felt in varying degree from sea to shining sea. This should be no surprise. An absolute division of one citizen from another is logistically impossible.

And may I respectfully submit to you that this would be the case no matter the outcome of our own civil war? The truth of our interrelatedness by virtue of our existence has been screaming in the heads of humanity’s empaths throughout the ages. Many of these are our poets, our priests, our philosophers and our theologians, our artists of various type and persuasion.

Many empaths are themselves writer’s and there have been those others fascinated by the empath’s words and expressions who have labored to preserve them. Their work is overflowing with the passionate plea to recognize our genuine connectedness and our inability to escape it, and the need to therefore bend with it when all but sin will allow, as in honoring and respecting one another we honor and respect ourselves.

Now it appears that some felt that my earlier remarks on this subject indicated a callous disregard for the feelings of those who are opposed to the statue’s position in the town park, maybe even to those injured during the eruption of evil occurring there on Saturday. I assure you, nothing could be further from the truth. It should go without saying that hate and violence are not only mean, but are a recipe for disaster as to mistreat and despise one’s fellow human is as detrimental to one as is wounding and abhorring oneself.  I am most of all opposed to such things.

I simply hope to encourage our depth of thought surrounding our activities- a search for patterns and predictable precedents that we may make the best use of our resources, and in conclusion, ask that we thoroughly consider, as we can not completely separate from one another nor from our collective past, in this case as well as in every situation like it, what may best serve all.

Copyright 2017. L.L. Shelton.

Reflecting On Charlottesville

Please do not insist that we remove every reminder of our struggle to be who we ought. Leave us traces of our wrong-doing in the form of art. Let some things stand to help us to recollect who we do not want to be and wish we never had been. These are fine artifacts as they exist to teach; to show us a history we hope never to repeat.

Perhaps in our desire to do away with every unpleasant memory we may do ourselves and our posterity great harm. What if the Bible is truth and its explanation of wickedness beginning in us, originating in human beings of each and every color is accurate? What then if there is nothing to bring this truth to mind? Would we not be destined to replicate many difficult and painful lessons should be already learned?

Let us think carefully before rendering our past free of hard things. For memory is not restricted to the past; it exists also to inform the future, and to ignore this aspect of memory, to relegate this valuable tool of the mind to a place of obscurity is a fool’s game.

Rather, let us stare appalled. Let us gaze aghast at these moments in our corporate story and at similar happenings in our individual stories, and let us fall to our knees and beg God to help us to come to healthy terms with the knowledge, and with ourselves, that these hideous and contemptuous events may never again occur.

Copyright 2017. L.L. Shelton.